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- Over view of this month
So many changes have come this month well in the last few months really. We moved house in November from a tiny village to a town, changing schools, my water tank broke which caused a leak complete chaos , but hey least its never boring. All those things have come with change and challenges but its never as bad as you think.
Dating at 30!
HA if that picture doesn't some it up I don't know what does.
Ugghhh i have been on my own a for a year and my gosh dipping you toe in to dating is scary, let alone whilst your about to turn 30 (in 4 months) i think dating can be daunting to anyone but add anxiety and being single parent in to the mix WOW, i feel like im a cozy homebody in a world of adrenaline junkies.
I do think having children makes it tougher, your time is limited, you cannot be so spontaneous. People also seem to think you are looking for a step dad/mum for your children yet that is the furthest thing from my mind, i want someone for me some for me my children aren't even a factor. i understand people have preference that does not bother me in the slightest its the judgement and questions people ask, "how many baby daddies", "wow you don't mess about" ,"do they see there dad" such personal questions that i think abit audacious. I actually think there should be a dating app for single parents. It might just be me.
Relationship changes with your children
if you are anything like me change can be tough, icky, uncomfortable. I think the hardest is to navigate is how the relationships changes with your children. From the moment you hold that tiny baby in your arms you are their whole world they depend on you for everything and even though the start toddling, their first day of school you are still the centre but watching them turn in to young adult and form closer relationships with friends, find comfort in other adults aunties, uncles, step parents the list goes on. Its not just you they come to is hard for us as parents and can cause a feeling of loss of purpose, give us that urge to old on extra tight, but in my opinion this is where you start to build the relationship you want with them as they become adults. Don't get me wrong by no means am i saying that you should let them spread there wings and make their own decisions completely but i think its time you start thinking about teaching them how to make good choices.
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